My husband and I wish we had more couple friends to hang out with. Of the couples we know, we hardly see them outside group settings, special events, or parties where the men typically hang out together, as do the women.
Making friends isn’t always easy, and finding or making friends with other couples might be even more challenging. Alex and I enjoy the camaraderie of other couples in love. Enjoying their company, along with sharing similar values, is important. It’s nice when we have things in common with other couples and can relate to them. Ideally, everyone has good energy and “gels” with each other.
Double Dates
Double dates can be a fun way for two couples to bond with each other. During a recent trip to New York, we connected with some of my friends on three double dates. It was the first time meeting two of my friend’s significant others. We got a glimpse of their relationships, all in different stages, from newly dating to living together or married.
In getting to know each other better, our conversations generally centered around common interests, shared experiences, and relationships. At times we engaged in separate dialogues while still being inclusive. It was nice to observe my friends happy and get to know their partners. We hope to continue to build these friendships despite the long distance.
Be Around Positive Role Models
Being around healthy and godly relationships strengthens our own. Better to be inspired by positive role models than negatively influenced by miserable or toxic couples. That’s why having the right couple friends is important. Likewise, my husband and I hope we’re a positive example for others.
