Truth and love go hand-in-hand. “Truth without love is like a sledgehammer and love without truth is like syrup.” This quote is from Father Mike Schmitz of The Bible in a Year Podcast (Day 357).
We should strive for truth even when some truths are hard to hear. It is honorable when done in love and for the well-being of someone who needs correction. We may get defensive being on the receiving end of a harsh truth, but if it comes from someone who sincerely cares about us, we could benefit if we’re open to hearing it.
Some will insist that telling the truth without sugarcoating is for the other person’s good. Speaking truth with contempt, however, is different from being direct. Even if there is truth in it, being critical of others and saying it with disdain can be damaging. If you’re not considering the other person’s feelings, are you deliberately trying to hurt them?
Similarly, love without truth is misleading and futile, and not true love. I would not want someone to hide something from me, lie, or tell me what they think I want to hear. I also don’t appreciate insincere compliments.
In being honest with others, ask yourself if what you want to say is true. Is it kind? Does it need to be said? Can it be said with compassion or in a way that minimizes unnecessary hurt? This way, you can practice truth with love.
