While we may be creatures of habit and routine, it's worth stepping out of your comfort zone now and again. Doing something that pushes you beyond your comfort zone enhances personal growth, creates rewarding experiences, and keeps life from being boring.
Before welcoming 2023, I reflect on the past year. What stands out most are the new places I’ve visited, learning to ride a bicycle, and roller skating.
Being immersed in new experiences can be scary and challenging, yet exciting and invigorating. As someone who just started riding a bicycle two months ago, my journey has been emotional and enlightening. Learning to ride and riding in itself has made me more aware of how I react when I'm stressed or anxious, my resistance and mental blocks, and my thoughts. It's also helping me to face my fears and build confidence.
Growing up, I was embarrassed to admit that I didn't know how to ride a bicycle. It was embarrassing not being able to do an activity that seemingly anyone and everyone could do. I didn't think I would be learning to ride a bicycle as an adult.
According to Google Dictionary, ghosting is "the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing all communication." I admit, I've been on both the giving and receiving end of ghosting.