Depending on the circumstances and my mood, I tend to respond with the same energy I'm being met with. It is easy to be cheerful when someone is being pleasant. It can be just as easy to respond rudely to someone with an attitude. In some instances, matching other's energy may establish a connection or show empathy. At other times it takes away your power and affects your internal peace by bringing you down.
Have you ever noticed how someone's genuinely good vibes and happy demeanor is infectious? Or how uplifting and inspiring it is to hear about acts of kindness or to be around people who laugh and have a grateful attitude? Likewise, being exposed to the news or to someone who constantly complains, has a pessimistic outlook, or is mean-spirited feels draining.
Are you running out of space in your home? Are your closets overflowing and dresser drawers jampacked? Do you have piles of stuff on the floor? What if the lack of space is keeping you from attracting that special someone? With all the clutter, maybe you don't have room in your life for a partner. There is literally no space for someone to occupy.