When I see social media posts of gatherings or parties, it brings up a strange mix of feelings. I wouldn't say it's FOMO. It’s more a reminder that I’m not really part of those circles. And yet, I don’t wish I were there. There’s a combination of relief and longing when I’m not invited. Part of me is glad to skip situations where I might feel awkward, but another part still wants to feel included.
One of the most important decisions you'll ever make, perhaps the most important, is choosing who you marry. I wish I had understood that when I was younger. Your partner profoundly shapes your life, your well-being, and your ability to navigate challenges. The right relationship can help you thrive while the wrong one can leave you depleted.
According to Google Dictionary, ghosting is "the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing all communication." I admit, I've been on both the giving and receiving end of ghosting.